Would you do this? If you want to reinject some FUN into your relationship, try celebrating an “arbitrary anniversary.”
It’s about minor milestones or even just random events. And the weirder they are, the better. For example: The day you binge-watched your first show together, or the first time you peed with the door open.
It’s trending after a writer for “Popsugar” did a story on it. But a relationship expert came up with it back in 2021. The name she gave it might just need a little work . . . “arbitrary-versaries.”
The idea is you’re creating additional excuses to celebrate each other, and your relationship, in all its weirdness. But they don’t HAVE to be weird.
Other examples “Popsugar” gave include: The day you knew you had a crush on each other . . . the day you went on your first trip . . . the day you slid into their DMs . . . or the day you first saw each other naked.
It’s good for couples who might not have a real anniversary yet, since people get married later than they used to. But it’s not JUST for couples who aren’t married.
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